The u-haul lesbian or u-haul syndrome is a stereotype of lesbian relationships, referring to the joke that lesbians tend to move in together on the second date. It suggests an extreme inclination toward monogamy or committed relationships. lu, a 25-year-old queer woman, agrees, telling me i love joking about the stereotype of lesbians and queer women buying a house together on their. one of the biggest lesbian stereotypes is that of a u-haul lesbian aka ones that move in together way too soon, like after basically not knowing each other at all. Lu, a 25-year-old queer woman, agrees, telling me i love joking about the stereotype of lesbians and queer women buying a house together on their second date, especially with one friend who. The lesbian u-haul stereotype has been scientifically debunked. In a recent study, taylor orth and michael rosenfeld of stanford university collected data on the relationship paths of 3,000 couples and found that the average couple in the u. But who does! ()were embracing the stereotype and we couldnt be happier!instagram wearec. Im sure every lesbian has made a u-haul joke, or teased a friend for u-haul tendencies or behavior, or experiences it at least once in her lifetime. Obviously, there are exceptions out there, but for the majority of us it seems to be a part of the lesbian conditionan inevitability.