if she wants to be a lesbian or bi, and wants to act upon it, it will only be a matter of time before another affair comes along, and she will make sure to hide it better this time. Three, she does not want to fix the problem, and even worse, she complains and accuses you of trying to control her. savannah, a 12-year-old mormon girl, came out as a lesbian to her congregation, and her viral moment shows how the mormon church views same-sex desire. Center right, are welcomed into membership at calvary baptist church by other clergy members during a service on feb. Of course, ultimately, affairs between single lesbian women and married straight women happen because there is something wrong with the wifes marriage. As many as 65 percent of men and 55 percent of women will have an extramarital affair by the time they are 40, according to the journal of psychology and christianity. A christianity today survey found that 23 percent of the 300 pastors who responded admitted to sexually inappropriate behavior with someone other than their wives while in the ministry. Lisa dordal, who came out after being married to a man for five years, explains, i finally embraced the fact that i was a lesbian when i came out of the closet at age 30. In high school and college, i wrote poems about girls and women i had crushes on and can also remember falling in. The affair started across the room in a sunday school class when the pastors wife received a text from a handsome member of the congregation. The text was a simple, what a pretty dress, you look beautiful today. This compliment brought something alive in her she hadnt experienced in a long time. She began trying to remember the last time her husband pastor of a large church. former marines murder exposes wifes affair with pastor. Kabul interior minister wais barmak caught on camera during a meeting berating kabul polices deputy chief of security affairs gen.