Opinion how do you turn a straight guy gay? Being gay or straight is thought to be fixed at birth. It is true that women are more flexible than men in sexual preferences, but not by much. Are you lesbian are you sure about it? If you are, accept yourself, there is no way u can change, u can suppress what you feel but u cant change. If the above does not work, give up, because it isnt going to happen. butch lesbian meets up with game straight boy, they have some mutually pleasurablemutually transgressive sex, and then part ways, grateful to have found each other but neither feeling a need to. When we talk about gay and straight, there is attraction, and there is behavior. He bragged about how bad i wanted it and how he achieved the goal he set out for proving i wasnt gay. Start by getting your relationship back to normal as best you can. Strike up simple conversations about day to day things, or talk about stuff you two used to talk about a lot.