i am interested in how relationships like ours dont last that long. I love her deeply but i am wondering why lesbian relationships dont last? Can you can explain a little bit more of that. Then most second dates dont become third dates, so by the time you are on a third date, you might be thinking this could be serious. first of all, youre writing to someone who is in a 15-year relationship. As you can see, from my point of view, lesbian relationships do last a long time. Most of my friends are also in long-term relationships, gay and straight. There isnt an average lesbian relationship and there isnt any difference from any other relationship. It could range anywhere from 1 day until the whole of your life. Ive currently been with my girlfriend for two and a half years and hope to be. Just like str8 or gay relationships, lesbian ones dont neccesarily last long. I average about 1-2yr relationships cuz i get sick of peoples shit pretty fast. do lesbian relationships last? Their&39s these 2 girls that i know who are absolutely beautiful and sexy as hell that recently started dating a month ago. I was shocked when i found out just because of how attractive they both are lol. I always thought in same-sex relationships you need a &39dominant&39 or a. lesbian relationships are so often full of love, affection, talking about feelings (sometimes ad nauseam), and great sex (research proves we have better sex than straight people). But that doesnt mean our relationships are flawless or without problems. Think about the most common issues we face as lesbians u-hauling it after the second date, only to realize that the person we shacked up. face it once you get into a serious lesbian relationship, you will never sleep again. The hours you used to spend sleeping will suddenly be filled with one or more of these passionate sex, mechanical sex, drunk sex, half-assed sex, angry sex, or a screaming fight about not having sex, followed by pity sex and a faked orgasm (which you dont normally do, but damn it, youre really tired). we asked 3,500 women in same-sex relationships what they fought about from drinking too much to not seeing each other enough to being jealous of exes, heres the results. 10 questions youre afraid to ask about your first lesbian relationship. Long-term relationships still dont feel 100 percent comfortable showing affection in public.