she may be shy or hiding her feelings around you, but shes actively following your life. when you tell her, be prepared for her to be confused or unsure about her feelings. While you may be tempted to keep talking, back off and give her some time to process what youve just told her. For more advice from our co-author, including how to move forward if your friend doesnt feel the same way, keep reading. Right now, she most likely has friendly feelings towards you, but the sexual element is missing because you havent been doing enough to trigger her feelings of sexual attraction for you. This problem often happens when a guy is very nice to a woman because he is hoping that she will like him enough as a person to give him a chance to be with her. Asking out a bisexual girl is no different from asking out anyone of any other orientation. If you like her and think she may like you too, you have nothing to lose by asking her out. I hate this girl in my school because in gym, the teachers paired her and my crush together for the dance unit. I talked to her and she said dont worry i dont like him, i get what your feeling but for some reason i just dont like her but i want to not hate her. You might love that person, but also hate certain attitudes that they have. All of these contradicting feelings can have a negative effect that many of us hate feeling paralyzed, without knowing which path we should choose. the dilemma i have known i was gay since i was a boy, but recently i have started having sexual feelings for women that ive spent a lot of time with at university. A love-hate relationship is one where both the partners have strong feelings for each other but are not consistent in expressing them. So they behave lovingly on some occasions and act like enemies on others. Couples in a love-hate relationship tend to speak harsh words that they do not mean. If you never ever think that and only have eyes for your partner, more power to you. Well, its about like anything else, except you have magical superpowers. The magical superpower of being attracted to girls while being a girl, and not identifying as any other orientation.